I'll tell you how my post above aged...
TERRIBLY!!!
I haven't posted in probably a year or more. I have followed along for much of that time though, more-so recently. My last posts were not very nice and I haven't looked at my notifications following that.
My views have changed tremendously and I have been thinking that at some point I should come back here and say so. Give credit where it is due.
I'll keep it short for now because I'm not prepared for anything more today. I'm only responding because I have not seen myself quoted in a long time, so I figured what the heck, let's do this now.
Short version:
I hate Trump like I've never hated anyone in my life. I now see the Republican fear-mongering for what it is. I guess it took someone as bad as Trump for me to finally see it. And you guys helped as well.
The ISFers, many of whom I argued with, ignored and "hated", were right all along about this guy. I was wrong to ever defend him in any way.
I repeat, I was so wrong. He IS a racist. He IS deeply mentally disturbed. He should under no circumstances be President of this country.
I never supported Trump (that can be argued by people here and I'm fine with that), I just hated the libs that bad, as my above quote alludes to. That's all the Republicans have.
For all the Hillary hating I did here, I would vote for her over Trump any time.
That quote above is what ALL of the Trump supporters I know use as their main, possibly only, reason that they give for still supporting Trump. The libs are worse!
So now I'm in the position where I'm one of very few Trump haters in my family. The rest think I'm crazy now.
My sister said in an email recently, "Biden lies and is incompetent. He said 120 million people died of Covid!"
Seriously, that's all you got? She's worried about Biden stuttering, after Donald just tried to take away our right to vote? Her response, silence. Oh and she's sick of hearing about it all and covers her ears. I'll take that as a sign of knowing she's wrong, at least deep down somewhere.
I say it again - you guys were right about this clown all along. I still can't even believe how right you were and how blind I was.
You deserve credit for helping me see it.
But changing my views was difficult and took a long time. Scary part is that for people who know nothing about skepticism and bias, I have no idea what could change their minds.
And knowing that the people I love think this way has been a real struggle for me. I mean it is one of the biggest sources of stress I have right now. I felt like I had to do something.....
So I chose my Mom as a "student". Rather than telling her how bad Trump is I have been teaching her basic critical thinking. She is really into it, and has just bought Flim Flam. I tried to recommend a book that wasn't too text-bookie and more easy to read for her to get her feet wet.
My Mom also got scammed really bad last year, so hopefully she'll learn some things.
I figured I'd have more luck teaching her
how to think than telling her
what to think. And she's the only person in my family willing to listen to me. She is now challenging her friends and it's pretty cool to see.
She is seeing the light, but STILL has reservations in saying that Biden is the better choice, even after the capitol riot! "We'll see what happens" Uh....what?
But okay, I feel I've made a lot of progress so I accept that answer for now. Sigh.
Anyways, I've been wanting to post this here for awhile, but I do NOT want to start posting here every day. It's one reason I hesitated in posting this at all. I don't want to get sucked into this time-pit of a forum

Seriously, as I've lurked here for the past year, every time I think I have something I need to say, someone else says it so I don't have to.
I have so much more I want to say, but that will be for another thread.
On Trump supporters:
One thing I will mention is that a lot of you guys are overthinking (poor word choice maybe) the reasons why people still support this guy. In my experience, it is very simple:
It doesn't even have to make sense:
- "Look at the riots in Portland! Libs want that! They're violent!"
- "They want our guns"
- "Biden has dementia and says stuff wrong!"
- "They want to take away my rights!"
That's it! Nothing more, and they certainly have nothing positive to say about Trump.
My Dad asked me one day. "Let me ask you, what is so great about Biden?"
My answer, "He isn't Trump, that's how bad Trump is!"
My Dad watches FOX, so he didn't know that Trump threatened to sue CNN for posting a poll showing Trump losing, or any of the gaffes he makes. He doesn't know about ANYthing because he watches FOX.
It's that simple. FOX almost won Trump the election. FOX can make Trump look competent and Presidential. Scary stuff.
I have not asked his opinion since election day. I'm both afraid to know, and hoping that he will see the light over time.
Trump voters are afraid of the evil libs. Every Trump voter I have talked to says the same thing and nothing else. Every article I read, every comment here...there is nothing but fear.
Sorry for the rambling post. I wrote this pretty fast and don't feel I articulated myself as well as I'd like, but it's a start.
Is this the answer you expected?
I have a lot more that I'd like to say someday.