Ah, the 'shifting the burden of proof' trick which is so well known from the woo crowd.
No Bjarne, you have not supported your poorly defined ideas with any facts or non-fantasy evidence whatsoever.
It is up to you to provide evidence for your claims.
If you are incapable of convincing a critical crowd of your poorly defined ideas (which you are), then it's your responsibility to try and change that.
Acting like a childish clown won't help you one bit at all.
”Aether” is a bad expression, because it is associated with a classic concept.
This is why I haven’t used it before.
Today as well as in the last centuries there are reasons to consider that space not is nothing.
We have assign space with a properties, - e.g; curvature of space.
Furthermore we know space somehow is connected to matter,- you can truly say and understand that space somehow must be woven in to matter or opposite.
To continue trying to get a coherent impression of what space is, you do know (at least) that acceleration of matter through space is not resistance free.
You should know that matter “as such” does not exist.
Matter is only a temporary reality, creating itself and dissolving in split second.
If you cannot come to a coherent impression of what space and matter then possible can be, except nothing, then you have only your own imagination to blame, because this is all what is left if we want to at least try to understand the nature of what is left; - which mean space, and the properties of space.
So space MUST be “something” that both can create matter and in that process curves space.
It is up to you to get the best understanding out of this naked truth.
Now back to the point.
Imagine that I live in a reality where time is ticking 10 times slower as yours. –“Between” our realties there are realities where time is ticking only 1 – 2 – 3 etc… times slower.
Speed of these “worlds” could be extreme, seen from an outsider.
An outsider could seen from a larger perspective be in rest relative to these reference frames.
He would understand that the reason to all these difference worlds were what he would say is speed, seen from his perspective.
He would conclude that the faster an object (you) moves, the more are both your time and reality is deformed.
Let us say the outsider and you live on 2 exact same size planets.
Let say a trip round the planets takes 24 hours, and the exact same for the outsider, - but when you compare the time it took you, to the time it took the outside to complete 1 orbit, - based on your definition of 1 second and 1 meter, - the outsider would have completed 1 orbit 10 times faster.
This should show you that even if you both can say “c” is the same for us both, - “c” would not be so when you compare time / distance definitions, but only when you compare what you both have achieve.
So this must show that there always is at least a “larger time / distance perspective”
Whether you in the end of the day can imagine an absolute reference frame is
not important, you can always chose to see an event both as a relative limit event, and in such a large perspective you can imaging.
So what is your problem?