From your response you clearly don't understand my point. There is no known way to observe time directly but only in terms of other events. A ruler can be used to measure the length of an object that exists (i.e. it can be directly observed by sight and touch) in terms of another object that exists (viz the ruler).
This is rather confused. The methods used to measure "length" are very closely related to those used to measure "time". Your invocation of "sight and touch" shows a reliance on vague intuition which I don't think holds up under scrutiny---the process of measuring the spatial-length of something, or of comparing two spatial-lengths, is indeed a sequence of events (not that you think of it as such in casual daily experience, but one must do if one is being precise) and these are conceptually identical to the sorts of events used to measure time.
Any of your objections to "time" as a real thing could equally be applied to "heights" or "distances north-south" or "distances east-west".
In our Universe, distinguishing one event from another requires four coordinates. That's a fact and there are various ways to demonstrate it. Three of those coordinates behave in one way and one behaves differently (in a clearly measurable way)---this leads to three of them being called "3 dimensions of space" and the fourth being called "time", but does not provide any basis for calling three of them real and one fake.
If you are tempted to call "time" dimensions fake or a mistake or a metaphenomenon, while persisting in calling "space" dimensions real or correct or fundamental, then you will run into the (basic, measurable) fact that two indisputably real events get their time-labels and space-labels mixed up differently by different observers.