My point is that my opinion shouldn’t be particularly relevant in the grand scheme of things.
In the grand scheme of things, it isn't, but as long as you have to deal with other people, it's the only thing you've got. Hobbling yourself by abdicating the responsibility to engage with moral questions at all and deferring to the opinion of another (by which I mean
any other) is a disastrous move that leads to the conclusion that everything is permissible, because in the real world very few people are mustache-twirlers trying to do the wrong thing. You seem happy enough to report the moral views of other people, so I'm unclear on why you're so reluctant to report your own.
Sapere aude.
If somebody doesn’t want to see Jerry Seinfeld’s comedians in cars show because he’s too Jewish, like really, what are you going to do?
I'd say "I disagree, I think he's exactly Jewish enough."
I don’t like Ben Shapiro’s stupid face, you going to force me to buy a ticket to his movie?
I'm not going to force you to do anything--moral inquiry is conducted in the language of reason. One of the advantages of seriously engaging with moral questions is that we might find a way to distinguish between not spending money on Ben Shapiro's awful ******** and organizing a boycott against Jewish people simply because they are Jewish. After teasing out fundamentals, we could then apply those to other cases.
We can talk about right and wrong but at the end people are free to do what they feel they need to. It’s decisions they need to make for themselves.
It's precisely because people have agency that it's possible to critique, abhor, or contemn their decisions; if they had no agency, they would not be morally blameworthy. It's a truism that people will do what they will do, but why would that prevent me from commenting on what they ultimately decide to do, particularly if what they decide to do is horrible, misguided, or ill-advised? Respecting other people's autonomy doesn't mean we're bound respect the decisions they make. Sometimes people **** up, even judging them only by their own standards.