
I understand exactly what you are saying.
Truth is many woos simply don't have the tools to even recognize when they are engaging in fallacy. They honestly think that their spurious arguments are valid. I know I did. They start with the assumption that they are right and everything else is simply trying to convince someone else of the correctness of the belief. Hey, their right.
I was listening to Dawkins on an interview taking phone calls from believers a day or so ago.
Their arguments were dreadfully embarrassing. They were childish. I understand those people. I'm disappointed but I understand. The ones who piss me off are the likes of Comfort who should know better. He is capable, IMO, of understanding the difference between valid and invalid argument. Like I said, he is either intellectually lazy or dishonest.
Once I gained the tools to recognize logically valid argument and what was fallacy suddenly a lot of my arguments disappeared. So I looked for better arguments. Eventually I realized I didn't have any. I only had questions and criticisms. Those are not a basis to believe in something.