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I have two trans friends, both trans-women.
I had three, but she committed suicide (in a car, hose pipe from the exhaust through window!) Incidentally, neither of the two I know think trans-women should be using women's restrooms. I never asked the one who killed herself. |
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What is Woke? It is a term that means "awakened to the needs of others". It means to be well-informed, thoughtful, compassionate, humble and kind. Woke people are keen to make the world a better, fairer place for everyone, But, unfortunately, it has also become a pejorative used by racists, homophobes and misogynists on the political right, to describe people who possess a fully functional moral compass. |
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Join Date: Oct 2013
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My brother died 2005, age 53. I never saw a "sister" so I am wilfully misgendering. None of us really engaged or interviewed as it were. He clearly took estrogen, but how or by whom prescribed I have no idea. This would have begun late 40s so appears to follow a pattern of late onset of a need to attend to dysphoria.
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Join Date: Oct 2013
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Meanwhile a religious freak speaks, and I agree with every word he says, and with fluency.
New law from North Dakota https://youtu.be/3BhYg0e511I |
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Meanwhile in Montana:
Have to say, I'm profoundly impressed. GOP reactionaries have managed to pass a law so obviously unconstitutional on its face that even the |
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What? Explain please. Is this perhaps because you feel very uncomfortable that your own beliefs are in such dramatic opposition to those of the mainstream medical community (AKA "the party line" in your parlance)? As a side note, I am indeed constantly pleased and impressed that around the industrialised world of modern liberal democracies, governments, public institutions, regulatory bodies and other positions of public authority are being ever-more-increasingly populated by those who fully support/endorse the rights & protections of transgender people, and who share the consensus view of global mainstream medicine that transgender identity is valid and real (ie not a mental health disorder). And at the same time, I'm constantly pleased and impressed that people in public institutions who oppose the fundamental validity/reality of transgender identity, and who fight against the notion of transgender rights and protections, are becoming fewer and fewer*. Just as anti-gay-rights individuals in the 60s-80s became fewer and fewer. * Which, for clarity, is NOT "applauding the hounding of those who disagree with the party line" |
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To you it is. It's a genuine wonder why apparently intelligent people who share your views - people who allegedly possess critical thinking skills - never seem to stop for a moment to wonder why their beliefs on this issue are so extremely out of step with those of almost all the "western" world's executive governments, legislatures, judiciaries and regulatory bodies, as well as being diametrically opposite to modern mainstream medicine's understanding and practice. All of those bodies, incidentally, contain healthy proportions of cis women (or "natal females" in case the usual suspects kick off again....). I mean, I realise that it's easy and lazy to shout "ideological capture", but it's also wrong to make that claim, isn't it? |
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British Cycling to ban transgender women from competing in female category
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Transgender cyclist Emily Bridges has called this “a violent act” and accused British Cycling of “furthering a genocide” so it looks like she’s against it.
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https://twitter.com/Mermaids_Gender/...47099196678144
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"As long as it is admitted that the law may be diverted from its true purpose -- that it may violate property instead of protecting it -- then everyone will want to participate in making the law, either to protect himself against plunder or to use it for plunder. Political questions will always be prejudicial, dominant, and all-absorbing. There will be fighting at the door of the Legislative Palace, and the struggle within will be no less furious." - Bastiat, The Law |
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Yep, it's truly sick and bigoted to believe that people being reconciled with the material reality of the only body they have is a safer and more compassionate solution than turning every person who doesn't conform to a set of stereotypes into a permanent medical patient.
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Pretty much, you're super happy that females across the globe are being silenced, threatened, and harassed, are losing their voices in politics, are losing their jobs, and are being forced out of public life. You're really happy and excited that females are being exiled from equal participation in society.
Yay you. |
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The Grammar Tyrant
Join Date: Jul 2006
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Bravo!
Now, if they can just convince the world body to follow suit. I've been thinking and wonder if I've been thinking about sport the wrong way and it actually might be the best sledgehammer to beat the insane wing into sensibility. If all sports stand up and disallow trans women to compete, it must encourage them to seek a new category for themselves. I don't see such a move having any push-back by sports or fans. Women didn't compete at Olympic Games in the first instance, and it's only 11 years ago that women were allowed to box, so let's add a trans category. If they successfully get their own category at sport, then they can have their own bathrooms, refuges and prisons. Problem gone. |
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I have no connection to people who beat others up for using the wrong bathroom. I want nothing to do with them, and I said so explicitly. My connection is to people who voice their opinions peacefully, and then get physically attacked for doing so. That's who I side with.
And you have confused the proscriptive with the descriptive. When I describe how things are, that doesn't mean that's the way I want them to be. You also seem to think that I'm saying someone deserves violence. But "deserve" has nothing to do with it. If I walk down a dark alley with money hanging out of my pockets, I don't deserve to get robbed, but it's a real risk. When you knock down Chesterton's fence, that doesn't mean you deserve the chaos that follows, but it will follow regardless. Moreover, the people who are responsible for creating a problem are frequently not the people who pay the price, and that seems to be the case here too. |
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"As long as it is admitted that the law may be diverted from its true purpose -- that it may violate property instead of protecting it -- then everyone will want to participate in making the law, either to protect himself against plunder or to use it for plunder. Political questions will always be prejudicial, dominant, and all-absorbing. There will be fighting at the door of the Legislative Palace, and the struggle within will be no less furious." - Bastiat, The Law |
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General question on the trendlines in this article
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SF Chronicle runs with a "who really knows if transgender athletes have an advantage" article. Here's the opening:
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Originally Posted by TRAs
Goddamn right it's not that problems have suddenly arisen. The problems have been there all along. What's finally being overcome is the political stonewalling that kept these problems covered up. |
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In response to a freedom of information request, Tavistock denied that it had any relevant information on it's associations with Mermaids. A week or so ago the information regulator found on the balance of probabilities that it did, and ordered it to release the information under threat of further action. Tavistock has now released 300 pages of information (which it previously claimed not to have). Ophelia Benson has a brief summary of this on Butterflies and Wheels.
A twitter user has posted links to the released papers which documents links between Mermaids, the then head of Mermaids Susie Green (who has no medical qualifications but was on advisory panels) and GIDs, so you can see for yourself. |
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I suppose it depends on one’s exposure to people who are different from themselves.
I’ve been a member of my local LGBT community band for 20+ years. For a stretch, I was a member of a Unitarian Universalist church, which was very welcoming of LGBT folks. I’ve gotten to known many trans men and women through those organizations over the decades. Yet, even still, I knew at least one trans-woman outside of all that through work but, to be fair, she knew of my band participation for years and probably felt more comfortable announcing her transition in a group who she knew would at least have some sympathetic people in it. My experiences might not be typical, but your experiences might not be either. And I still contend that you probably know more trans folks than you realize, just like I used to have to tell people that probably know more gay folks then they realize. History rhymes again and again. |
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Yeah.... but according to many of the participants in this toxic little thread, trans women are nothing but mentally ill men in dresses, and trans men are nothing but mentally ill women who've somehow been browbeaten into "masquerading" as men. And trans kids are gay kids who are being "transed into straightness". Personally, I don't find people holding such beliefs worthy of debating on any aspect of this subject. But of course YMMV. |
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What forum do you think you're reading? Nobody here has stated that all trans people are mentally ill. It's a strawman of your own making.
What they have been saying is that self-id allows men who don't in any way consider themselves to be female to utter the magic spell and gain access to places where biological women are vulnerable. A point that is continually ignored by trans advocates. They are also saying that some trans kids are being pushed to be trans beccause their parents are anti-gay. Some. That means "not all" And if you think this thread is toxic, look in the mirror. For the self-proclaimed adult in the room, you do a terrible job of representing other people's views. |
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Bearing in mind that mental illness ought not be stigmatized or invalidated, do you believe a significant fraction of trans identified adults have never experienced any of the diagnosable conditions listed in the DSM? Say, more than 25% or so?
Some have said that people need to experience gender dysphoria in order to really be trans, IIRC. |
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Um, yes, I forgot that London John considers gender dysphoria to be a mental illness, and claims that not all trans people have it. And that any suggestion of mental illness in trans people is abhorrent (except of course an illness brought about by society's refusal to accomodate them)
I dare say that most of the people here on this forum have or have had a condition in the DSM at sometime in their lives, whether diagnosed or not. As do people in general. Mental illness should never be stigmatized. Unfortunately it often is. I've been thinking how to say the following and I still haven't come up with a good neutral way of saying this, so I'll probably get shot for asking this. What does being trans even mean outside of saying there is a mismatch between their body and their brain or mind? |
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