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At what point is it reasonable to say to someone, or a group, who are genuinely hurt and offended by something, "well lots of people aren't, and think it's hilarious, so suck it up." I don't know the answer to this, but it can't be "always". We understand that blackface is genuinely hurtful and offensive to black people, so we agree to forego it, even if we personally find it funny and inoffensive.
Are women's feelings of so little account that they can be told to suck it up if they can't take a joke? Are we willing to sacrifice the Hinge and Bracketts of this world to stop the offensive acts from appearing? Having seen some of what shows up to Drag Queen Story Hour, and recognising that nearly all the drag acts I find funny and not insulting belong to the past, I'm leaning to "yes". |
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It certainly cannot be "never," though.
Many people are genuinely hurt and offended by the things folks like Forstater & Rowling have posted on Twitter. What's the appropriate remedy? ETA: For the sake of fair play, my answer is don't go to drag or minstrel shows if you find them offensive and don't read Twitter accounts if you find them offensive. (And don't have an abortion if you're pro-life.) |
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I'm not saying it should be never. However, Forstater and Rowling are not good comparators. They are not parody entertainment acts, which is what we're talking about.
You can't avoid drag performances by not going to drag shows though. These men are rubbing it in our faces all the time in public. |
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Well now that sounds like sexual assault.
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I was pondering this - and it seems to be underlying assumption that the two things are similar in some respect but apart from both wearing make-up I'm wondering why we are even considering they are comparable?
Would we think of comparing "black face" to the "make up" in say Avatar or to all actors because they also use make-up? I think the case has to be made as to why they are similar by those that think they are similar. |
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The difference is that women are and always will be second class citizens. Dolly Parton? Meh. Ten thousand men doing absurd and offensive parodies of Dolly Parton, while wearing social justice like a skin suit and demanding respect? Heroes of the revolution. What revolution? Nobody even knows anymore. Only that it involves men wearing womanhood like clown makeup and that's the best thing ever.
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In a surprising twist, the people who bitch in the trans thread are the same people bitching here. I know I'm shocked as hell.
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WAY too big hair compared to what a woman would normally wear? Check.
Buckets of make up, WAY more than most women wear? Check. Over the top outfits? Check. You don't have to pass judgment on whether it's good or bad, but to say that drag shows aren't "caricatures" is laughable. It's the very definition of caricature. car·i·ca·ture /ˈkerəkəˌCHo͝or,ˈkerəkəCHər/ Learn to pronounce noun a picture, description, or imitation of a person in which certain striking characteristics are exaggerated in order to create a comic or grotesque effect. |
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It's not merely caricature, it is performative glorification of the aspects of femininity which second wave feminists generally sought to deprecate and marginalize, such as "makeup and high heels and high-femme girliness."
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Is an argument or point worthy of dismissal merely because of who makes it?
Is the argument transphobic because a transphobic person made it, or is a person necesarily transphobic because they make a point that is also made by transphobes? Is it not possible for a person who is not transphobic to agree with a particular point that happens to be made by a transphobic person? It appears that there have been questions regarding the relationship between drag and feminism going back to the seventies, though I've only seen second-hand references to these concerns. I've also seen complaints that some of the terminology used in drag is misogynistic. A convincing drag queen, apparently, is referred to as "fishy" in an ...unflattering... reference to female anatomy. I've also run across the point a few times that it's kind of humiliating for women to watch men mocking (or celebrating) the roles that women were put in...by men. I'm not sure I buy the "I'm not mocking <group x>, I'm mocking the stereotype of <group x>" argument because it doesn't really seem to work in any other case. Except when done by a member of the group in question. (You can make jokes about your own ethnicity, your own family, etc.) It's hard for me to say how pervasive the view of drag as misogynistic is among feminists. I did a search, which did nothing to clarify the issue. (Most of what I got was a defense of drag, written by men.) But I did find this of article which, while fairly interesting in itself, I think the comments are more interesting (https://www.feministcurrent.com/2014...btq-community/) : From the comments: Honolulu Lulu-
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Seriously? This has to be explained to you? Jesus ******* Christ.
Ok, well. That thread leaks into a ton of other threads, and into FMF a bunch. Therefore, while I don't read the thread, I have seen the arguments, the bickering, the stupidity, and the whining in a ton of other threads and sections of the forum. I'm glad I could take time out to hand hold through that, what I would consider obvious, explanation. You're welcome. It's not always intended to be comedic, or grotesque. I also don't know if these men enjoy the styles or if they're doing it on purpose to "caricature" women. Which, to me, implies the intent to caricaturize, in this case, women. So laugh away, I don't give a **** if you think I'm way off base. They could be wearing it because it makes them feel sexy, or wanted, or so on. The difference between you and I is I don't think they're doing it to mock or caricaturize women. I think they're doing it...just kidding. I don't think about why they're doing it because it's their business and not mine. |
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Do some transwomen find drag offensive? Apparently, and actually I can understand why. The problem there is that there is no way to tell a drag act from a transwoman. Not only that, but we're seeing increasing numbers of drag acts adopting "feminine pronouns" and attaching themselves to the trans bandwagon. Recent legislation in my country lumped all men dressing in women's clothes or indeed claiming a woman's identity for any reason at all into one category - even including men who cross-dress occasionally and men in drag going to a stag party.
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I was just going to make that very comment.
Genius. You're basing your opinion on a thread which has been active for 4 or 5 years, containing something like 50,000 posts, on a cherry-picked worst few. Credibility rating 0/10 And what Matthew Best said immediately after your post. |
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What did I ask to be explained, and what did he explain? This is slowly turning into another bitch fest about trans people, so if you can ask it quickly I might even bother to come back in this thread before it completely implodes.
So it's hard for more than 1 person to figure simple things out? Thanks for letting me know. You don't have to tell me, I live it. No, I'm basing it from all of the stuff I've seen over the years I've been here that have stemmed from that thread. Along with the few times I dipped in the thread to see if anything has changed. Again, something I thought was clear but apparently it's more complicated than I thought. I also, seriously, give a **** about your credibility rating for me. Next time, save the keystrokes. I can't figure this out. Is something about what I'm saying ******* confusing? I feel like I'm expressing myself pretty plainly, and clearly. What can I possibly clear up for you? What have I said this is causing confusion? |
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I wasn't explaining anything you asked.
The first part of the post was regarding the trend of dismissing a point/concern/argument rather than addressing it based on who the poster is. I quoted you as a starting point for that. The rest of the post was not directly in response to a particular person but an attempt to investigate some aspects of the topic of the thread. Specifically, I was interested in:
In the course of investigating those questions, for which I have not yet found solid answers, I read through the comments of an article and found something I found interesting: trans-people who equated drag with womanface. Something that I hadn't seen mentioned before in this thread. I don't see this as the same issue as the thread about trans people, although some people in that thread don't distinguish between a drag act and a trans woman's everyday presentation. It sucks that we can't talk about issues very close to the topic of that thread without it being invoked. (It's this board's version of Godwinning, I think.) It is possible to be in favor of everything in the trans rights platform and still see drag as offensive. It's also possible for a person who opposes some portions of the trans rights platform to have no problem with drag. My wife used to bartend at a drag club in Chicago in the 80s. She has no problem with the drag queens...used to exchange makeup tips. But...she sees it as adult entertainment, so "drag queen story time" seems odd to her. And, while she doesn't care what bathroom anyone uses, she would have trouble with a person with a penis in the (open) shower in the woman's section of the pool where she goes for physical therapy. So I would say that, while she's not anti-trans, she is not completely pro-trans either. But she has no problem with drag. (ETA: that was included, not to establish a pro/anti trans argument, but to illustrate that they are distinct issues.) It's not the same issue. |
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Yes, I know. That was my point. Hence my reply to Matthew Best.
ETA: As to the rest of your post, perhaps a thread on drag vs. trans might be interesting to some people. It's not to me, but plenty of people on this forum seem extremely interested to voice their opinions on trans people whenever the opportunity shows. I'm sure a few in this thread would be more than happy to hop in and tell you how terrible trans people are no matter the thread. |
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I'm sure if I combed through that entire thread I wouldn't find a single person speaking derogatorily about trans people. Go ahead, pull the ******* other one, its got bells on it.
![]() You might think calling me ignorant is an insult, but when it comes to that thread, I do actively ignore it. Ignorance is the goal. As I mentioned, I've seen the spill over, I know better. That being said, that thread isn't the ******* subject. So how about you go back to that thread to talk about it? I don't give a **** about it and it's off-topic here. Off you go now. |
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Your description here is pretty much the distinction between drag performers and male actors playing female roles.
Drag queens aren't just wearing dresses. They paint on exaggerated make-up, ridiculous eyelashes, and absurd fingernails. They wear highly sexualized clothing, with borderline grotesque fake breasts and butts. They act in overtly sexualized and lewd natures, and they frequently mock females. They perform a negative caricature of females. Just as there's a world of difference between Othello and minstrel shows, there's also a world of difference between Mrs. Doubtfire and drag shows. |
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