I've been very, very lucky over the years. A small amount of savings have converted into a large amount of portfolio and primary dwelling assets.
My wife is just starting to grasp the importance of financial planning. Despite having a shared asset in the house, we otherwise do our own FP, and the scales are finally falling from her eyes about financial planners. ie: that they're mostly incompetent, but some are shady too.
The main breaking point for her was that we're reviewing our parents' investments (we have POA for our respective parents) and it's clear that the managed portfolios have vastly underperformed the unmanaged ones.
My poor dad... during this 2009 - present runup, his investments and yield have actually shrunk, but in some sort of sad Stockholm Syndrome, he continues to praise is financial advisor as a genius. Something-something-taxes. Getting rid of that parasite is on the agenda for 2017, even though it will precipitate an argument with my dad.
There's a website by a fellow Canuck that I have encouraged my wife to read: [
Mr. Money Mustache — Early Retirement through Badassity]. Early retirement (50-55) has always been my goal, and I wish this site had existed 30 years ago when I was younger so I didn't have to learn the hard way.
My wife is somewhat avoidant, so unable to answer direct questions about her financial planning ("when do you want to retire?") which makes it difficult for me to contribute suggestions for her. I have a feeling we'll be living on my savings even though her earnings are twice mine at the moment.